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金钱 柯币
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发表于 2004-11-29 07:42:16
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回复: 大家进来帮我化解下情绪>_<
[QUOTE=明石姬]Your Stagnant Self
Let's face it!
You don't always experience your life as absolutely thriving!
Or even close to it!
How do I, a Tutor, know that?
Because I know you're human just like me, that's how.
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So let's cut to the chase, stop denying, and think for a moment about your
Times of Stagnantion
times
when you're marking time and merely existing
waiting and bored
unexcited and unchallenged
sick of yourself
and
sick of your unproductive routine
times
when your life is devoted to little other than
your somewhat miserable self
when your life
frankly, is
just not a happening thing.
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You are
emphatically not
in danger of irreversible personal collapse
if you sometimes feel this way!
In fact
as a Tutor I know that being clear about
STAGNATING
makes all the clearer your awareness of
THRIVING!
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So relax
just let yourself become aware
of yourself
at these humanly inescapable times of
pointless anger
aimless dissatisfaction.
These moments happen to everyone
who has the courage
to recognize
them.
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When you think about your moments of
STAGNATING
I want you to work out a devastating portrait!
I want you to have fun with it!
I want you to conjure up
a definitive image
deadly accurate and possibly
humorous
(but just around the edges).
Perhaps replete with the
smug, sweet, sleazy satisfaction
that so often accompanies
stagnant living.
Loosen up!
Air the image out!
Let it stand
clear in all its vapid splendor,
undisguised.
The very essence of how stagnation occurs:
Stagnation Personified!
Not a pretty sight from the standpoint of
enlivenment!
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Recognize the experience!
Everyone encounters moments of stagnation in their living.
Often, these are moments
of secure surrender to productive habit!
The humor in such moments is often found in the absurdity
of their self-contradiction
like
wanting to win at the game of life
without playing it fully
or
wanting to stand still without
being left behind
or
looking for a compelling new experience
without the experience
of anxiety.
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Incidentally
it might be true that even when stagnating
you are more vital than others are
when thriving.
This is of no interest.
I only care how you regard yourself in your own
states of stagnation.
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So let's count as times of stagnation
times when the companionship of boredom and tolerable frustration
count for more than the possibilities of growth
for more than
finding the delight and experiencing the power
of being yourself,
playing the hand you were dealt
to the fullest!
Times of stagnation
are
times of
empty triumphs
resignation to the predictable
acquiesence to the available and unsatisfying.
On the plus side
times of stagnation can provide an opportunity to think about
what thriving might be worth!
念给的,说得满有道理的。人谁都有一时半会儿不开心的时候,想开点,别太紧张,别给自己那么多压力,过两天就好了。楼主大人good luck^^^^^^飘走[/QUOTE]
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